If you get women of an ethnic minority in a predominantly white nation marrying outside said minority it may be down to nothing more than there being a lot more white men than Asian men.
That is undoubtedly the main cause - you have to WANT to marry a Chinese person, in order to marry a Chinese person. Like my cousin.
And yeah, the stereotypical assumption that I, as a Chinese man, want a subservient woman, is somewhat odd. I remember once being asked on a dating profile if I'd be the Chinese master to this guy's wife...
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Date: 2010-10-25 02:51 pm (UTC)That is undoubtedly the main cause - you have to WANT to marry a Chinese person, in order to marry a Chinese person. Like my cousin.
And yeah, the stereotypical assumption that I, as a Chinese man, want a subservient woman, is somewhat odd. I remember once being asked on a dating profile if I'd be the Chinese master to this guy's wife...